When The Storm Comes

by Claire Vorster on May 22, 2013

“Change is like a storm at sea. If you do your duty, strap yourself to the mast and hold your ground, you’ll weather the storm alright. But cower with fear belowdecks, the ship will be torn asunder – and you’ll find yourself in the cold confines of the briny deep. This I suppose was a long way of saying if you don’t make way for change, it’ll sink you.” from Betsy and the Emperor by Staton Rubin

The fisherman knew the sea like a farmer knows the land.  He knew where the currents ran swift and where the waves rose and fell like mountains in the wide and open. And like a farmer, he knew just when and where to harvest, during the times when shoals of mackerel and cod came thick and fast along the deep crevasses. Dangerous work but he was fit for it.

The fisherman was strong, bull shouldered, persistent – stubborn some might say. No one knows the sea like him, others would whisper with awe as he hauled his nets up with more fish then anyone else ever found.

Then the fisherman met the Teacher and the Teacher asked him to put his nets down and learn. The Teacher took the fisherman out to sea when the conditions were all wrong.

“The conditions are all wrong.” the fisherman said, but the Teacher just nodded as the shoreline faded to a twinkle.

The fisherman could feel the storm snaking up, tap tapping against his back. An unkind wind, capricious, unpredictable.

“Teacher, we must turn back, the sky is angry and the wind will only blow harder. We are out of the shallows, the waves will build until we cannot see their tops and then they will fall like a rage of war horses and we are not ready. I know the sea and we will not survive this storm.”

With this, the Teacher smiled at the fisherman, then he yawned, curled up in the stern of the boat and fell into a deep sleep, the kind of sleep that comes when everything is as it should be and the heavy work of the day is done.

Of course the storm came, and it played with the boat like a cat with a mouse. Oh you will live, no you will die. Slapping and punching, howling, bawling, dark chaos until the fisherman had done all to save the little boat and had no strength or cunning left in him.

A little while into the fisherman’s utter despair, the Teacher woke up and stretched and the waves calmed like a hysterical child who fights and whimpers before finding peace. The fisherman, who had know everything, now knew nothing.

“Why did we not just turn around?’ he asked the Teacher, “why sail into the storm when we could have been on dry land?”

“Because this is where we were supposed to be” was all the Teacher said.

Then the fisherman knew that if he had not been at the mercy of the storm, He would never have seen the mercy or the majesty of God. And this fisherman would tell you that it is far safer to be on a boat in a storm with a Teacher than it is on dry land without one.

“The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open. Do it. Throw yourself.” C. JoyBell C, Author of All Things Dance Like Dragonflies

When the storm comes, where will you be?

He believes in you.

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Belonging

by Claire Vorster on May 14, 2013

“The best mirror is an old friend.” George Herbert

Where do you belong? Who do you belong too? Do you know what it’s like to have a room of people pleased to see you or is your nose invariably pressed up against the mirror of someone else’s happiness?

Belonging at it’s best brings comfort, friendship, loyalty and trust. At it’s worse it morphs into the Nazi party, the Whites-only Country Club or the place where everyone else seems wanted but you.

Why create places where certain people are not welcome? Why divide into Us and Them at all? Are we actually safer in little places where everyone looks alike, or is this One-Size-Fits-All approach just easier, less scary, less trouble all round?

If you have ever been excluded, you will know how important it is to belong. Belonging is comfort, friendship, loyalty and trust. But when belonging turns sour, it ceases to be belonging at all. A place where certain people are not wanted is not belonging, it’s fitting in.

Saying the right thing, thinking alike, keeping up appearances, being one of us, laughing at the right jokes, hating what I hate and loving what I love.

If we are forced to become a mirror image of someone or something else, we give nothing real and gain nothing of substance. This is just phantom love, love-lite, as flimsy as a spider’s web and just as hard to struggle free from.

Why settle for this?

“Fitting in is about assessing a situation and becoming what you need to be accepted. Belonging, on the other hand, doesn’t require us to change who we are; it requires us to be who we are”  Brené Brown, The Gifts of Imperfection

The best mirror is an old friend. Someone who knows what love is, and what it is not. Who has no desire for you to lose yourself, but rather to find yourself. Who is interested in you, not in using you. Who loves without question, without limit and with purpose.

Someone who knows what you are capable of, and loves you anyway.

A friend like this does not demand what you cannot give, does not love you only when certain requirements are met. This kind of friend will never exchange grace for manipulation and control.

And if ever a friend knew what it was like to be out on a limb, cast off and rejected…

But you are so important to Him that He became nothing and gave everything, because He sees all that is good in you and He calls you His own.

“That love which was weary, hungry, tempted, scorned, scourged, buffeted, spat upon, crucified, pierced – which fasted, prayed, taught, healed, wept, sweated, bled, died. That love will eternally embrace you.” Richard Baxter

You belong to Him. And His love will always reminds us what love really is, and what it is not.

He believes in you.

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The Art Of Flying

May 1, 2013

“There is an art to flying, or rather a knack. The knack lies in learning how to throw yourself at the ground and miss.” Douglas Adams, Author of The Hitchhiker’s Guide To The Universe All of us are headed home. We start out with nothing, no baggage, not a stitch of clothing to our name [...]

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Always, Like Tomorrow’s Sky

April 21, 2013

All I know is that I’ve wasted all these years looking for something, a sort of trophy I’d get only if I really, really did enough to deserve it. But I don’t want it anymore, I want something else now, something warm and sheltering, something I can turn to, regardless of what I do, regardless [...]

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Are We Safe?

April 17, 2013

“Trust God’s Word. Don’t trust your emotions. Don’t trust your opinions. Don’t even trust your friends. In the wilderness heed only the voice of God.” Max Lucado  Uncertainty. Bombs, rockets aimed at us, drones aimed at others, wars and rumors of wars. Where are we safe these days? We stumble, we falter, we fall. We [...]

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What Do You Really, Really Want?

April 10, 2013

“When you have chosen your part, abide by it, and do not weakly try to reconcile yourself with the world.” Ralph Waldo Emerson Supermarkets are brilliant at enticing us to buy things we don’t need. You know the drill, you go in for something necessary like bread, only to get to the checkout with an [...]

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What Is Grace?

April 3, 2013

“They know, they just know where to grow, how to dupe you, and how to camouflage themselves among the perfectly respectable plants, they just know, and therefore, I’ve concluded weeds must have brains.” from Dirt by Dianne Benson, 1994 It is surprisingly easy to grow weeds. If you have ever tried to grow anything else, [...]

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How He Loves You

March 27, 2013

“I grew up hearing everyone tell me ‘God loves you’. I would say big deal, God loves everybody. That don’t make me special! That just proves that God ain’t got no taste. And, I don’t think He does. Thank God! Because He takes the junk of our lives and makes the most beautiful art.”  from [...]

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One Thing You Need

March 22, 2013

“Bible…bible… blahble….blah, blah, blah. That’s not what we need to offer hurting people. There’s a time and place for quoting Bible verses, but when people are in the depths of pain, they need one thing and only one thing: An expression of REAL LOVE.” Steve McVey, Author of Grace Walk, currently struggling with a debilitating [...]

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Night and Day

March 4, 2013

“Why do I pray?” he asked me, after a moment. Why did I pray? A strange question. Why did I live? Why did I breathe.” from Night by Elie Wiesel Elie Wiesel is a Romanian-born Jewish-American writer, professor, political activist, Nobel Laureate – and Holocaust survivor. He is the author of 57 books, including Night, [...]

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